so what wisdom can i pass on to those of you still in 26 yrs....basically this:
(more medical-psychological based as my experience here helps me learn a lot)
1.life is too short to be unhappy
2. if you know the outcome is going to be bad, avoid everything you can to stop the situation from happening, no use suffering
3. if you can learn something from someone let them teach you, don't be a hardhead
4. dance & smile till you drop from exhaustion b/c we won't be dancin like this at age of 70
5. don't let other people's judgements affect you; equally try to take other's emotions into consideration & try not to hurt them
6. if it's meant to be it will....don't drag something out past it's due time; people weave into & out of our lives every day - it is only hard to deal w. the fact that we have to throw some fish back into the sea if they are 'not right' ---finally i understood this metaphor!!!!!!!!
7. be dramatic but don't let drama run & ruin your life
8. keep practicing -you'll get better!!!!! years ago my singing voice sucked & now it's pleasantly audible
9. keep old friends in your life if they are GOOD FOR YOU, including old loves ; if it's hurting you (or both of you) too much or is too complicated let it go
10. on that note, if it's a one-way street....go to the next block & you might find park ave!
11. good things come to those who wait...and we're all good things......... :)
12. try to remember your childhood & what made you happy b/c this will keep you sane at 1/4 and 1/2 life crisises........
13. love like you've never been hurt & give all you've got to everyone you can b/c it's the only way to know if it'll work out (thanks sean.. ! )